Books by Bethelene

Big Feelings in a Little Body

Welcoming A New Baby

In this book , young readers meet Ben, a boy learning to navigate the big emotions that come with a new sibling. At first, he isn’t thrilled—everyone seems focused on his baby sister, and Ben has big feelings in his little body. Eventually, Ben wants to spend time with his baby sister and learns to make room for both his feelings and his love.

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Ben's Big Feelings in a Little Body

Feeling Mad, Without Feeling Bad

Ben’s Big Feelings in a Little Body is a thoughtful, illustrated children's book. It gives the message that it's okay to be mad without feeling bad. The term “grown-up” is used instead of “parent” to include a variety of family constellations and caregivers.

Validating and accepting big feelings without judgment allows children to move through their feelings without feeling shame or bad about themselves.

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The Magic Pee and Other Surprises

Toilet Training Without Shaming

The Magic Pee and Other Surprises is a fun children’s book for toilet training/learning without shaming, and is both gender neutral and inclusive. The term “grown-up” is used instead of “parent” to include a variety of family constellations and caregivers.

As a childcare professional, Ms. Hart didn’t like the traditional way toileting was explained using the word “accident” and came up with the terms “surprise” and “magic pee” instead.

The story is humorous and sensitive to a child learning a new skill.

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Bethelene Hart is an Early Childhood Educator with over 30 years of experience as a Motivational Speaker, Facilitator, Author, and Consultant to schools, childcare centers, and parents/caregivers.

Passionate about guiding, supporting, and empowering families, Bethelene founded Parenting by Hart to educate, validate, and inspire parents and caregivers. Her motto, “Confident Parents, Confident Children,” reflects her commitment to nurturing both children and the adults who care for them.

A mother of five and a grandmother, Bethelene brings honesty, humor, and real-life experience to her writing, workshops, and speaking engagements. She is widely respected in her field for her practical insights and heartfelt approach to parenting.